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My fiancé has a bad habbit
So my fiancé and I have been a couple for 3 years and she's great; just a terrific gal and I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with her. But, there's just one thing.
A couple weeks ago she went out for a ladies night. After all was said and done she was home safe and sound and all was well. However, her friend told me about the night. My fiancé had apparently been picked up, and even more, she went along with it. But, she did it to get free drinks. Obviously this isn't sitting well with me. But, her friend assured me it was nothing, it was just a way to get free drinks.
I'm worried this deceitful behavior is emblamatic of a deeper problem. Set aside all the involvement with other guys, I'm afraid this type of behavior could leak into other aspects of our lives. But also, yes, the thought of other guys even talking to her and her encouraging it is more than troubling.
So, what is it? Just innocent fun or should I feel upset/even furious about it? Also, some advice on this would be great.