roomie bringing home strangers

My best friend and I decided to become roommates after moving to the same city for our first professional jobs after college. We went to separate colleges but stayed best friends over the years. We found a great apartment in a neighborhood we both like. My problem is that my best friend / roommate has been bringing men home that she meets out at bars. I had no idea she was this way since we did not go to college together. I am not comfortable with this because I do not feel safe. We just signed a year lease. I know it is her home too and so I feel torn on what, if anything, I should do. What should I do?

messy roommate

I have a roommate who is great in every way except one. To be blunt, he is a slob. I have been doing on the cleaning including cleaning the kitchen after he makes a mess. I am getting tired of cleaning up after him. I am looking for a solution to this problem. Let me know what you believe I should do about this:

Small Talk with New Roommates

Just moved into a new apartment with new roommates. As a shy person it's usually hard to start conversations with people. I also have a hard reading people and distinguishing whether the person is shy or just doesn't want to talk to me (lol). Any pointers for small talk? These are my general convo starters.

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