Which wedding tradition is a money waster?

Wedding planning is insane...there’s no way I’m spending anywhere near the $30k average! I’m more frugal than my partner and he wants more of the “traditional” regalia than I do, so I’m being mindful of this, but I don’t want it to go off the deep end. Which of these big-ticket items should I fight to cut from the budget?

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