What's your guest cleaning policy?

It’s part of my culture to do a big sit-down dinner every week. We love having people over and there’s a group of three people that come every week, which I totally adore. I do the meal planning and cooking and they bring the wine. However, I’m also the one who gets stuck with the cleaning at the end. Is it rude to ask my guests to please wash their own plates, glasses and cutlery before they leave? They've gestured at offering, but I don't know if it's rude to take them up on it.

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