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My BF is moving to NY, but I'm not.
I've been seeing this guy for a few months now – some casually, some not – and things are going really well with the exception of one hitch. He's moving to New York at the end of the month and I'm staying where I am. I don't feel this way very often and in an ideal world we'd stay together, but I don't know if it's in the cards. We haven't really talked at all about our feelings or what's going to happen when he goes. I think we're both avoiding the topic because we know it won't be easy to talk about. He's starting a new job and I'm working on building my freelance career so we both have a lot going on outside of the relationship. It's definitely too early to up and move with him, but because I freelance I'm pretty mobile. Because the relationship is so new it just might be easier to call it a day than try and make it work long distance. I'm not sure what to do.